Do you know how to properly pick up a glass of wine, which bread plate is yours, or when it’s okay to use a toothpick at the table? How about what to do (and, even more importantly, what not to do) when you visit a pueblo on a feast day? Quit texting on your cell and pay attention. Local etiquette experts—Thelma Domenici, Kris McCarty, Mary Alice Higbie, Brian Vallo, and Samuel McFall—gave us notes on how to mind your Ps and Qs, because even in this Bluetooth day and Evite age, manners matter.